
Come before His presence with singing. Bring a gift of laughter, sing yourselves into His presence. Applaud God. Psalm 100:2
In 1978, one of my favorite musical artists, Anne Murray, recorded the single You Needed Me. The writer, Randy Goodrum, wrote the song for his wife, and from the first stanza, the song tells a sweet story. It expresses gratitude for someone who provides support and clears up confusion during difficult times. While the song isn’t exclusively religious, it’s themes of kindness and support can certainly be interpreted that way.
The lyrics center on the writer’s view of unconditional and undeserved love. In his mind, Randy Goodrum wondered how his wife could love him as if he was perfect, when he was not.
The other day as I was on my mission to get doctor appointments, check ups, tests, and other items checked off my list before the end of the year, I was reminded of how much I love that song and its meaning.
On several occasions, when I have been in Wellstar’s Medical building on Roswell Road, I have been comforted to hear calming music coming from a couple who play in the lobby at times. The woman plays the flute, and the man accompanies her on his guitar. The sound they make together is so comforting and beautiful that many times, I will stop to listen and even sing along.
On this day, they were playing Anne Murray’s beautiful song, You Needed Me. I stopped when they finished to chat and thank them for adding the gift of their talents. I am not sure of their story, but they are so dedicated to play here and also in hospice and nursing homes in the area.
Every science agrees that music has a healing power. Research shows that it improves surgical outcomes, it reduces the side effects of cancer therapy, relieve pain, and provides a healing balm for Alzheimers and stroke victims. This comfort is so needed by so many.
My mind turned to all the people in our lives who show us by thoughts, words, and action what a gift it is to be needed. Every Christian wants to be needed in this world of today because each have special gifts and graces which can be used to ease the pain and suffering we see all around us.
When God calls us, He equips us with all we need to be help ourselves and others feel needed. The Bible says, “Ask people what you want them to do for you, then grab the initiative and do it for them.” Matthew 7:12
There comes a time in some of our lives when we feel that we have reached the point where either we aren’t needed or we don’t need anyone. It’s like saying we don’t think we are of any use anymore. God always needs us to be open to His needs for our lives.
Many times being needed can be difficult such as in the role of a caregiver. In many cases, they deal with constant needs of those who they love, and it has hard to find a balance between physical and emotional exhaustion.
Our Daddy needed constant care near the end of his life. He didn’t really know what he wanted or needed, but I believe he somehow knew that Mama would be there to take care of his every need.
The expression unconditional love comes to mind when I think of being needed and needing others. This selfless love accepts the person as they are without conditions, ultimatums, or expectation of reciprocation.
The following lyrics from You Needed Me say it all.
I cried a tear, You wiped it dry. I was confused, You cleared my mind. I sold my soul, You bought it back for me, And held me up, And gave me dignity. Somehow you needed me.
You gave me strength to stand alone again, To face the world out on my own again. You put me high upon a pedestal, So high that I can almost see eternity, You needed me, you needed me.
And I can’t believe it’s you I can’t believe its true. I needed you, and you were there. And I’ll never leave, why should I leave I’d be a fool, ’cause I finally found someone who really cares.
You held my hand, When it was cold. When I was lost, You took me home. You gave me hope, when I was at the end, And turned my lies back into truth again, You even called me friend. You needed me. You needed me.