Diane Mickler's Blog

If I give up everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I do, what I believe, I am bankrupt without love. Love is patient, kind, non-envious,it does not boast, act proud, or insist on its own way. It is not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs, and rejoices in the truth. Love never dies. Inspired speech will be over some day.; Praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit. We know only a portion of the truth now, and what we say about God is always incomplete. But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be cancelled. Matthew 13:4-8 from The Message

The month of love is here, and we are seeing red hearts, red roses, red balloons,chocolates, candy hearts and anything else that can be remotely connected with the holiday. It is a great time for businesses because Valentine’s Day ranks just below Christmas in consumer spending with cards, gifts, flowers, and candy.

I have a doctor friend who has recently announced her marriage to her long time boyfriend after years of being divorced. We began talking about love and what it means in this world of today, and she said, “We all just need to be sure we carry at least a cup of love with us throughout every day.”

Then she posed this scenario to me. “Picture yourself early in the morning in a crowded elevator. The door opens, and a man with a cup of coffee enters. Everyone has to move to make room for him. In the process of shifting, his coffee jostles, and he spills his coffee all down the front of your clothing. What do you say?”

I thought a minute, then said, I guess I’d say, “Uch oh!” She began to laugh and said, “Why on earth would you say that? Can you imagine the curse words, stony stares, and physical reactions that I would expect?” I said, “Well, I thought about it like this: I wouldn’t be going to work, so I would be dressed in my everyday clothes. I probably wouldn’t be in a time crunch because I’m usually early, so I’d have time to rinse off my clothes. But the main reason is, I taught kindergarten for 30 years!” She laughed again, and said, “That’s what a cup of love looks like to me!

A cup of love represents a profound and spiritual connection with someone or something. You have a love that never dies and never stops caring. Couples sometimes use the cup of love at their wedding because it has two handles so they can drink together. God represents this cup of love to us in His constant love and care.

This week the Olympics began in Milan, Italy. Athletes from nations all over the world have come together in search of winning a medal. Many of these nations are not particularly popular with each other in the world of today, but during this time, a cup of love is shared among them as they compete.

Friends can share a cup of love. This week has been unusually full of surgeries and sickness for a few of our friends. Thankfully, all turned out well. Friends came together with a cup of love and provided for those who needed it during these times.

It is especially hard when you lose a sweet friend which we did this week. She was a hundred years old, spry, sweet, active, loving, and Godly. When she went into Hospice and died soon after, I thought of the cup of love we have shared with her over these many years. So many laughs, chocolate chip cookies, and cinnamon rolls were such a part of our cup of love. I realized when she died, that we still love someone when they are gone. Love changes shape, but it never disappears. Love lives in our memory, and it does not end with absence.

Families share a cup of love with each other as well. The members of a family are there during stressful times, times of sickness, and they are there to get each other through the sad times and to celebrate the victories in life. This past week, we have watched as members of the Guthrie family has bonded together to find their Mom, Nancy. People all over the country have offered a cup of love and support for them through their thoughts and prayers.

This Valentine’s week is a great time to think of ways to share a cup of love with those who need it. God is the very essence of love, and He would have us remember that without love, we are nothing. God is love!

O love that will not let me go, I rest my weary soul in Thee; I give thee back the life I owe, That in thine ocean depths, its flow may richer, fuller be. George Mattheson

Happy Valentine’s Day!

We don’t know the first thing about tomorrow. We are nothing but a whisp of fog catching a brief bit of sun before disappearing. Instead, make it a habit to say, “If the master wills it, and we are still alive, we will try to do this or that!” James 4:13-15

Ground Hog Day, held annually on February 2, is a North American tradition where the rodent, Punxsutawney Phil, emerges from hibernation in order to predict the weather. If he sees his shadow, supposedly, we will have six more weeks of winter; however, if he doesn’t see his shadow, we will have an early spring. Who knows if this little creature can really get this right?

According to data, Phil only has about a 39% chance of predicting it correctly. It’s rather like many conversations I heard this week about the snow that is coming our way. Some say “yes, we will get it,”some say “no, we won’t”, but who really knows?

None of us know what will happen in this new day, but some people think it would be wonderful to be able to see what will happen tomorrow and beyond. But, who knows? If we were able to see all the blessings and benefits waiting for us in God’s providence, we would waste our days yearning for the future.

On the other hand, if we could see all the trials, troubles, and tribulations awaiting us, we would live in dread of the future and miss or squander the opportunities of today.

Who knows what our health will be. Who knows how our unforseen needs will be met. Who knows where this life will take us. In our life in the ministry, we were required to go where sent, and we were sent to several different congregations. We didn’t know until about six weeks before we moved, where we would be moving, what our home would be like, or what unforseen problems and blessings would await us. Am I glad we didn’t know? Yes! Otherwise, we would have missed the surprise!

The good news is that there are things we do know! We know that God has all the wisdom, skill, and power to weave all our circumstances, good or bad, and allow them to work for our good.

We do know the peace that passes understanding when we let Him take care of all our fears, anxieties, and needs. We do know the love, mercy, grace, forgiveness, peace, promise and power of Jesus. We do know that He holds the future. I love the verse from a song which says, “Many things about tomorrow I don’t seem to understand; But I know who holds tomorrow, and I know who holds my hand.”

James says that We are just a whisp of fog catching a brief bit of sun before disappearing. In other words, we need to know that life is brief, and we should make the most of the brevity. We need to focus more on what is the right thing to do rather than on what not to do.

We need to know “to do all the good we can, in every place we can, to all the people we can, in every way we can, every time we can, for as long as we can.” copied

Because we know that God is with us in this life, we can look forward with assurance to whatever comes to us. The following poem by Annie Johnson Flint tells it all beautifully.

God has not promised skies always blue; Flower strewn pathways all our lives through. God has not promised sun without rain; Joy without sorrow, peace without pain. God has not promised we shall not know; Toil and temptaion, trouble and woe. He has not told us we will not bea , many a burden, many a care. God has not promised smooth roads and wide, Swift easy travel needing no guide; Never a mountain rocky and steep; Never a river turbid and deep. But God has promised strength for the day; Rest from the labor, Light for the day. Grace for the trials, help from above; Unfailing sympathy, Undying love.

There’s an interesting map on display in the British Museum in London. It’s an old mariner’s chart drawn in 1525 outlining the North American coastline and the adjacent waters. The cartographer made some intriguing notations on areas of the map that represented regions not yet explored. He wrote, “Here be giants,” and “Here be fiery scorpions,” and ” Here be dragons.” Eventually, the map came into the possession of Sir John Franklin, a British explorer in the 1800’s. Scratching out the fearful inscriptions, he wrote these words across the map, “Here is God!”

Who knows ? God does!

It is predicted that Punxstawney Phil will not see his shadow, but who knows?

Wait for God. Take heart. Don’t quit. I’ll say it again. Wait for God. Psalm 27:14 The Message

This past week most of us have adopted the wait and see attitude concerning the threat of ice and snow for our area. The meteorologists are having a field day with all this information, and whether they are right or wrong, most of us just have to wait and see if it affects us.

In the early years of my teaching career, the technology of predicting storms was not nearly so sophisticated, so teachers and students had to wait until the morning of a school day to find out whether or not we got a “snow day” at home. It was always a surprise!

The first year of our marriage, Randy and I lived in the upstairs apartment of an old home in Decatur, Georgia while Randy attended Emory University and I taught near by. In January of 1973, a major ice storm hit Atlanta producing some four inches of ice, and we were two of the 300,000 without power.

The storm hit on a Saturday, so Randy suggested that we hop in his VW and set out on an adventure. When I asked “Where will we go on these icy roads,” he replied, “Wait and see!” There was obviously no one else on the road, so we ended up a little while later at Lookout Mountain Park in Tennessee. Not surprisingly, the park was closed, but not to be deterred, Randy was determined that we should get in. He found a six foot wall that looked easy to get over, hoisted me over first, and then he joined me on the other side.

We toured the park on our own! The battle above the clouds was fought here during the Civil War, and we walked in the ice as I listened while Randy described each detail of the battle. There were cannons, statues, historical markers, and monuments. The view of Chattanooga from above in the snow was breath taking. At the end of our adventures, I asked, “Do you think we can we make it home?” Randy replied, “Well, I guess we will have to wait and see!’

A wait and see attitude is defined as a situation in which one is not sure and decides to wait before taking action. It is pretty hard for most of us to wait and see these days. We simply don’t have the patience to sit around and wait for answers to the problems or situations that are weighing heavily on us. We want a resolution, and we want it now!

During the wait and see times of our lives, God uses these periods to build character, strengthen faith, and align us with His perfect timing. He works behind the scenes rather than acting immediately, but while we are waiting to see what happens, He provides us with peace in place of anxiety and a promise that those who wait won’t be disappointed.

The scripture above assures us that those who wait patiently and don’t act hastily will not be disappointed. He works behind the scenes to renew our strength, and He uses this time to help us mature in our faith. To wait and see is not a waste, but rather a time to prepare for what He has planned.

Years ago in Scotland, the Clark family had a dream! Clark and his wife had worked and saved for years to fulfill their dream of taking their nine children with them on a trip to the United States. The time had come, and they had their passports and reservations on a new ocean liner headed to the U.S.

They were so filled with anticipation and excitement; however, seven days before their departure, their youngest son was bitten by a dog. The doctor stitched up the boy, but he hung a yellow sign on their front door as he left. Because of the possibility of rabies, the family was quarantined for fourteen days. They would not be able to make their dream trip.

The father filled with rage and disappointment went to the dock and watched the ship sail without them while shedding tears of anger. He cursed his son and God for this misfortune.

Five days later, the tragic news spread through Scotland – the mighty Titanic had sunk taking hundreds of lives with it. The Clark family would have been passengers on this voyage. The things that sometimes seem hard to bear can turn out to be a blessing.

When we wait and see there are blessings in our patience. When the Holy Spirit guides our lives, the blessings of love, joy, peace, longsuffering, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control will be evident in our lives! Wait and see!

It appears the meteorologists got close this time!!

The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint. Proverbs 17:27

This past week, Randy and I met another couple in a restaurant for lunch. As usual, the place was crowded and of course, loud!. When we sat down in our booth, I was immediately aware of the two men who were having a conversation behind us. I was aware because one of them was very loud, and he controlled almost all of the conversation!

I quickly deduced that this was a business, probably job interview, meeting because one man asked a question and for the next ten minutes, the other guy answered. He was not able to answer in a few words!

My mind went back to my high school days, my English teacher, and my time on the declamation team there. A declamation is a formal rhetorical speech or recitation usually memorized and delivered with dramatic passion and flair. The goal of the speech is to passionately express ideas and to persuade the audience to connect with your message. We were judged on the delivery of the message and the content.

As a presenter, we got one minute to introduce the work, the author, and the circumstances under which the work was written. When the actual speech began, we were allowed five to seven minutes to deliver around 650 to 800 words. The pace of the speech had to be adjusted according to the presenter.

I figured that this guy in the booth behind me must have spoken at least 1600 to 2000 words just to answer one question! Not only did he lose me, but I’m pretty sure he lost the interviewer as well!

We’ve all been a part of a conversation or presentation where one person seems to take over and dominate. It can be frustrating to those involved because there’s the issue of trying to be polite while finding yourself and others totally manipulated by the person speaking. One almost wants to ring a bell and call “time out”!

There’s a lot of merit in being able to express ones self using a few words. Jesus knew the value of being a man of few words. He taught with powerful, concise words often using short commands or memorable phrases such as “Follow Me”. He got His message across using parables, storytelling, miracles, or asking questions of His followers. He told of God’s love through His actions and experiences. The crowd was always engaged.

With only a few words, Jesus could speak with a quiet gentleness or with an authority that thundered in its confidence. He took the deaf and mute man from the crowd, touched his ears and tongue, and with two words, “Be opened”, He brought healing. Jarirus’s daughter heard the voice of Jesus call her back to the living with two gentle words, “Arise child.” From the cross, Jesus raised His voice and uttered three words, “It is finished.” These few words still ring down to us today.

Modern day has its own share of men and women of a few words. Martin Luther King was a man of few words, and we remember the few words today from his speech, “I Have a Dream”! We remember John F.Kennedy’s few words where he challenged each American to”Ask not what your country can do for you, but ask what you can do for your country.”

Oprah Winfrey used a few words when she said, “It is never too late to be what you might have been.” Amelia Earhart said, “Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace.” We can learn just as much or more from those we know who are adept at being a person of a few words.

Being a person of a few words offers benefits such as an increased impact, deeper listening, and perceived wisdom because concise communication often signals thoughtfulness and confidence preventing misunderstandings and making listeners more receptive to valuable contributions.

There are so many phrases of a few words that offer just what we need to hear sometimes. For example, I love you; I forgive you; Congratulations;Thank you; You did a great job; Thank you for your service; This too shall pass; God is with you; God bless you; I miss you; I am praying for you; God has this; Get well soon; I’m here for you; I’m so proud of you; and You don’t have to do this alone; just to name a few.

The hymn Wonderful Words of Life by P.P. Bliss conveys the message of the power of words in a few words. Sing them over again to me, Wonderful words of life. Let me more of their beauty see, Wonderful words of life. Words of life and beauty; teach me faith and duty. Beautiful words, wonderful words, Wonderful words of life.

This week offers each of us the opportunity to tell others what they need to hear in a few words.

Don’t panic. I am with you. There is no reason to fear for I am your God. I’ll give you strength. I‘ll help you. I’ll hold you steady and keep a firm grip on you. Isaiah 41:10 from The Message

This past week has been a football fan’s dream! Not only, did we have some exciting college games, but the pro games as well. If you know us, you know that this house yells, “Go Dawgs,” but, ironically, we find that these days, the majority of our family now yells, “Hotty Toddy!”

The University of Mississippi football team has weathered a lot this year, and most folks can’t help but admire the strength they have shown during their uncertain times. The players, coaches, and fans were caught off guard when their head coach accepted another position right before football playoffs.

The good news is that this team became an example of how we can turn uncertainty into strength. Rather than throw in the towel, the players bonded togehter, the other coaches stayed to see the team through the rest of their exciting season, and the fans have shown enormous support.

Although their season ended with the close loss to Miami, they have remained strong, committed, and supportive of each other. The quarterback, Trinidad Chambliss, is a strong Christian, and he stated “As Christians, this is how we are called to be, not just in the victories, but in the defeats. It’s not just about putting our arms around each other, it’s also about allowing someone to give us that support without flinching.” It’s about turning the uncertainties in life into strength.

It is impossible to go through life without uncertainties. When we are uncertain about something, we aren’t confident or sure of it. These can be things that are undecided, unknown, or doubtful in some way. If we aren’t certain, it’s usually an uncertainty.

We’ve all been in situations akin to the Ole Miss Rebels. There’s the uncertainty of the consequences of a bad choice, the uncertainty of a j0b loss or financial pressures, the uncertainty of why bad things happen to good people, the uncertainty of a dilemma we didn’t plan, the uncertainty of planning care for a loved one, or the uncertainty of not having anyone you can lean on, just to name a few.

These uncertainties in life sometimes allow us to forget our God given strengths and just say, “I’m done!’ The best news is that God replies to us, “Good, now I can begin.” He begins by offering reassurance, His presence and strength, and HIs support during times of fear and adversity.

In the above verse from Isaiah, God promises five things to those who face uncertainties. First, He says I am with you, and that promise is His personal, constant presence removing the need to fear loneliness or abandonment.

Next, He says, I am your God, and that promise emphasizes a special covenant or relationship which assures us of His personal care and ownership.

His third promise says, I will strengthen you. God promises to provide us with an inner fortitude and courage, and the ability to overcome difficulties and prevail.

He says, I will help you. He promises divine assistance and intervention to help His people at their point of greatest need.

Finally, He promises to uphold us with His righteous right hand. God is reminding us that He offers us powerful, just, and faithful support by holding us up and not allowing us to fall.

In this game of life as in the Ole Miss situation, there are victories and losses, ups and downs, good times and bad, and times to celebrate and times to mourn. Rather than leaving the field after the loss, the team stood shoulder to shoulder as their coach praised them all for their resolve, loyalty, accountability, pride and identity. A time that began with uncertainty began a time of strength. It can be that way for us as well.

The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent. There will always be trials and tribulations in life, but God will carry you through every storm in your life and give you strength to make it. copied

May the God of peace, who brought again our Lord Jesus from the dead, equip you with all you need to do His will. Hebrews 13:20

Today we are five days into the New Year of 2026! We are on a new adventure, and every day will bring something new. The very essence of an adventure is that we don’t know what’s going to happen, so how can we possibly be prepared or equipped for it?

A wise person once said, “Life is a continuous process of getting used to things we hadn’t expected!” Sometimes we find ourselves in predicaments without an apparent answer. We have problems with no apparent solution. We are on an adventure, and we realize it when we are not equipped to handle it!

When we are ill-equipped, we don’t have the necessary skills, qualities, resources, or equipment for a particular task or situation. Essentially, we are unprepared or inadequate to handle whatever it is.

Randy and I were fortunate to spend some time last week with some friends at their lake house. We came prepaared for everything we thought we would need on our adventure; however, we learned that one isn’t always as prepared as you think you are!

It was New Year’s Day 2026, when we loaded up Randy’s truck to set out on our adventure. Everyone was ready, and we piled into our respective vehicles. Randy got in, pressed the start button on the truck, and there was no response. He realized he didn’t have the key fob, so he went in to retrieve it! After an exhaustive search ( which included everyone looking through everything), we realized we were ill-prepared to remedy this situation at this time.

We finally transferred all of the items, to another vehicle and went on our way, but everyone was obsessed with how to get that truck started without a fob. Improvisation is part of the adventure, so we began to do just that! When we are ill-equipped for whatever happens, and we improvise, we are making the best of whatever situation with what we have!

Should we have brought our spare fob? Yes, but we didn’t. Should we have it towed to a dealership? No, too much money. Should we go home and get the fob and drive back? Yes and no, but only if it is the last resort. The final decision was since we had three cars that would crank, we would take the paper work to the Ford dealership the next day and have them help. Improvisation for folks who were ill-equipped.

As we were settling down for the Sugar Bowl, Randy left to change clothes, and when he came back, he had found the fob in one of his pockets. Problem solved, and we watched a great game even though we were ill-equipped for the ending, but that’s another story!

Our story is a minor irritation compared to those of us who have experienced instances of being so ill-equipped for the situations facing us. This past year, there are those of us who have suffered the loss of loved ones, those who feel the helplessness which comes with the sickness of a child, those who deal with the everyday stress of sickness, and those of us who feel lonely and abandoned.

God offers us a new year in which we can feel our strength being renewed as God prepares us to mount up and soar into new dimensions of His love and His plans for us. We are assured that we can walk in bold faith into this new year with God by our side. God has taught us a lot about how to handle blessings as well as trials.

The Bible says a lot about planning- when we can. Yet, on the other hand, we must be flexible and spontaneous because life has many surprises to which we must adjust. There are times when we find ourselves ill-prepared for the predicaments, tragedies, loss, sorrow, sickness, and heartache which seems to have no answer. Yet, with God’s help the answers come as long as we do not give up and keep trusting Him.

This new year brings a new beginning, and a new time to reflect on things we gained from the last year. Hopefully, many of us have grown and learned through the blessings and the trials.

Our scripture tells us that God will equip those of us who feel ill-equipped if we will just be patient and do His will.

O God our help in ages past, Our hope for years to come; Our shelter from the stormy blast, and Our eternal home. Under the shadow of Your throne, Your saints have dwelt secure; Sufficient is thine arm alone, and Our defense is sure. Issac Watts

I can do all things through Him who strengthens me. Phillippans 4:13

Christmas has come and gone. The gifts have been opened, the meals and sweets have been consumed, the decorations will be put away, and we find ourselves on the brink of another new year. This year, I have resolved to make things better this year than last even though last year was good, it wasn’t without its struggles. In short, I will look to Isaiah as he reminded us, Remember not the former things nor think on the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing or in my words, I will make things better.

This past Christmas, as in most Christmases before, the question I ask my family more than anything else is, “What do you want for Christmas?” I get the usual “Oh, I don’t need anything” or “Anything will be fine” answers. This year Randy got specific and asked me, “Do you want jewelry? Do you want clothes? Do you want some money for a massage?” My answer was a definitive”No, I don’t need anything.”

A few days later, my phone dinged with a message from our credit card company informing me that someone had used my card at a place called Heli Atlanta. Of course I immediately thought it was a scam, but upon confronting Randy, I found out it was my “surprise”Christmas present. It turns out that thanks to Dave and Donna, Randy had been put onto this idea for Christmas. We were taking a helicopter ride over Atlanta! I was mortified as I get motion sickness and was dreading it.

However, we did indeed go and do our helicopter ride, and it gave us a whole new vision of this city and the beauty that we can’t see when we are caught up in our own small world. The lights, the sights, the places that we never imagined were so huge, and the traffic!! It made me realize how many things in life we might miss because the things that have happened to us in past years keep us from moving forward and making things better.

We are much like the two hunters who ran into a bear so big that they dropped their rifles and ran for cover. One man climbed a tree while the other hid in a nearby cave. The bear was in no hurry to eat, so he sat down between the tree and the cave reflecting upon his good fortune. Suddenly, for no apparent reason, the hunter in the cave came out, almost ran into the bear, hestiated, and then ran back in! In a minute, the same thing happened again. When he emerged for the third time, his companion in the tree called out, “Woody, are you crazy? Stay in the cave til he leaves.” “Can’t,” panted Woody, “there’s another bear in there!”

Sometimes we feel like no matter wherever we go to try to escape problens, there’s always a new situation, problem, or crisis waiting. We want to make things better, but we can lose our direction. So, how do we make things better in 2026?

First, resolve to make things better in 2026 by forgiving whatever grudges we might have against one another. A grudge is defined as a deep ongoing resentment that we cultivate in our hearts against someone else which leads to unforgiving attitudes and/or actions. Grudges can destroy families, friendships, and even churches. When you hold a grudge against someone, you hurt yourself as much or more than you hurt that person.

Next, we can resolve to make things better in 2026 by forgiving ourselves for past failures. The new year is a good time to stop torturing ourselves for things we did or did not do and stop being chained to them. Christ’s forgiveness allows us to forgive ourselves and put failures behind us.

Finally, we can resolve to make things better in 2026 by taking time to speak with our Lord. In this New Year, turn the tv off, turn the computer off, stop scrolling on your phone, stop texting, and spend five minutes with God. We can spend time with Him while we are cooking, while we’re driving, or when we are in the shower! We can tell Him things we’d tell our friends, our neighbors, or our spouse. Thank Him for His blessings! Surely, we have five minutes to spare.

Will this New Year be just a calendar changing event for us, or are we ready to make it one to celebrate by resolving to make it better than any other year of our life?

Happy New Year! Make it the best!

My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior. Luke 1:46-47

T’was the week before Christmas and everyone was hurrying. If we didn’t know better, we’d resemble the mice who were scurrying! No one has time to think of Joseph, Jesus and Mary; We are cooking, wrapping, and have no time to tarry. I wonder what Mary would say if she could speak to each of us? I know she would urge us to keep Christ in Christmas! (With apologies to Clement Moore)

There’s just three days left before Christmas, and although I am sure people are magnifying many things, somehow I don’t believe the Lord is in the picture as we finish up our plans. When we magnify things, we make them appear larger than they are. We tend to magnify the unimportant things and forget to magnify the person that is the reason we celebrate.

Mary was devoted to her God, and she was able to put aside the uncomfortable stares, the gossip, the discomfort, and the emotions of it all. She was able to teach us that faith isn’t just about knowing the path ahead, but rather trusting that God will lead us through the unknown. Mary didn’t ask for a life of comfort, but rather, she chose a life of purpose. In doing this, she magnified the Lord. When we magnify the Lord, we praise Him, extol Him, glorify Him, and tell of His greatness.

The time is growing shorter, but there’s still time to remember to magnify the Lord in everything we do. Joseph found a way to do just that. He had to have been a man of great faith, but he also had to have had a list of questions a mile long. However, through it all, he trusted God and believed that God’s will was best.

There’s still time to magnify the Lord by caring about other people just as Joseph did. His job was to care for all the characters in the Christmas story, and he did it humbly and with love. Do we?

The story is told of a young couple with an 18 month old son who had gone to spend a few days with the grand parents at Christmas. Christmas Day fell on Sunday that year, so right after church, they said they good-byes and set off for home. There weren’t many filling stations open, but they did find a truck stop to fuel up and went in to get something to eat.

They went in the dimly lit restaurant and sat down. They thought they were the only people there until their son, Eric, said “Hidere! Hidere!” He was putting
“Hi” and “there” together to make one word, “Hidere!” Every time he said it, there was a response from a table in an alcove near the door, “Hi there, little boy! Hi there, little boy!”

The parents looked in the alcove and saw an old, raggered, tattered looking man whose coat was old and torn and at least two sizes too big! His trousers drug the floor, his shoes had holes in them, he was unshaven, and when he smiled, all his teeth were gone. Yet, for some reason, little Eric kept speaking to him!

Finally the old man said, “Little boy, do you know how to patty cake?” Sure enough, Eric showed him. “Little boy, do you know how to play peek a boo?” Soon, the two of them were engaged in that game. The dad became uneasy about the situation, so they ate and prepared to leave as soon as they could.

As the Mom was walking by the old man holding her son, Eric reached both arms toward the old man. The man asked, “Would you let me hold your baby?” Really she had not much choice because Eric lunged into the man’s arms. He cradled Eric in one hand and patted his back with the other as Eric put his arms around the man’s neck and laid his head on his shoulder.

Closing his eyes, the old man whispered to Eric while tears streamed down his cheeks. In a while, he handed Eric back to his Mom and said, “Thank you very much. You have given me my greatest Christmas present.” As we care for others, we magnify the Lord.

Finally, to magnify the Lord, we should learn to give of whatever we have. This is really what Christmas is all about, isn’t it? When God gave himself, Christmas happened.

Mary said, My soul shall magnify the Lord, and it was so!

Merry Christmas!

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you believe in Him so that you may overflow with hope through the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13

Jesus said “Have you believed because you have seen me?” John 20:29

A few years ago my friend Penny and I were talking about our young grandkids, and she asked the age old question, “Do they still believe in Santa?” I replied, “Well, if they don’t, they won’t admit it because they know the presents could be negatively effected if they do!”

Penny agreed and then proceeded to tell me a story. It seems that she had a friend whose middle school daughter still believed in Santa. The child had been home schooled so she wasn’t privy to the usual school yard conversations and revelations that can occur during this time of year. Her mother thought it best to go ahead and break the news to her before she began her middle school year in the public school system.

The daughter took the news badly, and said to her mom, “Oh, no. if Santa isn’t real that means the Easter Bunny isn’t real! Next, you are going to tell me that Jesus isn’t real either!!” Believing in something or someone can sometimes lead to disappointment.

At this time of year, believing in Santa is the highlight for many children. They see his image everywhere, and it is easy for them to conjure up his image in their mind. They are very familiar with his red cheeks, white beard, jolly ho ho ho, and jelly belly. Believing is easy with Santa even if we don’t know his background.

Saint Nicholas was originally a bishop of the church in the fourth century. He was a very generous man who gave many charitable gifts and helped many poor and needy people. He also spent several years in prison because of his faith, and while he was there, he converted many prisoners to Jesus Christ.

Saint Nicholas was a good man who helped the poor, and Santa is the symbol that conveys the spirit of his generosity and love. The Santa that we have created and in which children believe, is supposed to be the one who has his historical origin in the bishop who obeyed God’s command that we love and help others in need. We believe.

However, it is Jesus that should be the main focus of the Christmas story. It is His birth that we celebrate along with the gifts of joy, peace, and love that He brings to each of us who believe. The story of Jesus has historical roots as well, and yet rarely can children conjure up a picture of this man.

The Book of John gives credence to the story of Jesus by declaring the things that were recorded during His life were done so by people who actually saw and heard the stories. The manger, the birth, the star, the angels, the shepherds, and the wise men are not legends, but rather people who were there and witnessed the miracle. Do we believe ?

The word believe is defined as accepting something as true. In order to believe, one must entrust one’s heart to someone or something through love, loyalty, and committment.

The good news of Jesus is that people can see him in their minds, not as a Santa, but as a Savior. Unlike Santa, He doesn’t look the same for everyone. James Taylor wrote, Some people see Him lily white, the baby Jesus born this night. Some people see Him bronzed and brown, the Lord of earth from heaven come down. Some people see Him almond eyed, this Savior whom we kneel beside. Some people see Him dark as they, sweet Mary’s son to whom we pray. The people in each place will see the Baby Jesus’ face, like theirs but light with heavenly grace.

The question for us this Christmas is Do we believe in our Savior? Do we believe in Jesus? Can we conjure up an image of this man in our mind? Do we worship Him or other things at this time of year? Do we believe God gave His only Son to live among us and die for our sins?

This Christmas as we sing the hymns, light the candles, and reflect on HIs birth, is it just tradition or do we truly believe? The question is, are we still believing in the Christ who came down at Christmas?

Though you have not seen him, you love Him. Though you do not now see Him, you believe in Him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory. 1 Peter 1:8-9

During this season, I have a habit of playing Christmas music when I’m out and about doing errands. It just seems to add to the joy! However, most of the folks out and about seemed to have forgotten the joy that comes with Christmas. They have long serious faces, stress written all over them, and driving with horns honking for others to move on! Where’s the joy?

On one occasion, a young boy visited his grandfather on his farm. His grandfather was not being a good companion, and obviously there was very little joy during the visit! Later in the day, the boy decided to take a walk around the farm and see if he could find the animal he thought most reminded him of his grandfather. He noticed the chickens scratching and playing, and said, “They ain’t it.”

He moved on to the colts playing and kicking up their heels in the field, and he said, “They ain’t it.” Finally he found an old donkey in the barn. When he saw the donkey’s long frowny face, and the way he just stood there looking sad, he yelled for his grandfather to come see. “Look, said the young boy, I found an animal with the same joy as you!” Where’s the joy?

Is that how people see us Christians at this joyful time of year? Do we walk around with long, sad faces, or do we smile, laugh and celebrate the coming of the Christ child? Christmas joy isn’t feeling happiness from good circumstances, but rather a deep abiding strength that comes from God.

The joy of Jesus was that he was able to see the comical side of many a human situation or predicament. His good natured approach to life was rooted in his great inner joy.

Dr Michael MacIntosh says, “There was joy at the tomb of the resurrected Lazarus. There was joy when a leper returned to thank Jesus. There was joy when the deaf heard, the blind saw, and the lame walked. Everywhere Jesus went, there was joy.

In this season of the year, people need to see the joy of Christians rather than the “donkey faces.” They need to hear a Merry Christmas, receive a smile, see the joy on our faces. We express His joy through smiles, laughter, helping others, fellowship, and discipleship!

Sometimes we need a mission to spread joy this Christmas! In the midst of all the gift giving, the greatest gift we can give to others is the gift of joy.

The story is told of a man in Salt Lake City who decided to send out Christmas cards to perfect strangers to help spread the joy of Christmas. He got telephone directories from several cities, addressed 600 cards to people he had never met, included his return address, and mailed them!

Amazingly, he received 117 responses from total strangers. One lady wrote, “It was so good to hear from you. Your card arrived the day I got home from the hospital, and I can’t tell you what an encouragement it was to hear from an old friend.”

Another wrote, “I must admit that when we received your card, we couldn’t really picture you. We had to think hard for a long time before we remembered. By the way, give our best to your father. He is such a wonderful man.”

But one response took the cake! One guy wrote, “It was good to hear from you after all these years! By the way, we are going to be in Salt Lake City next summer. Would it be all right if we come and stay with you for a few days?”

This past Saturday as we were preparing to watch the UGA verses Alabama game, the doorbell rang! When we opened the door, there stood “UGA”, the mascot for the Bulldogs who had come to lead us in some cheers and spread some joy before the game! Now, “UGA” was really a dear friend who loves to spread joy! Thank you, Eve for spreading the joy! Georgia won the game and the joy just kept on coming!! Go Dawgs!!

Where’s the joy? The joy of this season lives in every one of us if we will only make an effort to be like Jesus and reach for that inward joy! He came to bring Joy to the World. Let’s not let Him down!