
Do not worry! Matthew 6:31
There are several friends of ours who love to do jigsaw puzzles. In fact, they enjoy them so much, that there is constantly a partially solved puzzle on a table in their homes with the missing pieces scattered all around!
I am not great at the huge jigsaw puzzles, but occasionally, while standing there, I try to find the correct piece to add just for fun! If I can see the picture on the box, I have a much better chance of getting the piece to fit. At this particular house; however, the box with the picture on it was not there! Suddenly, I had no hope of getting this one in the right place!
Life is a lot like trying to put a puzzle together without the finished picture. When things happen, we tend to do one of two things: we either blow the whole situation out of proportion, or we look at it as “no big deal!” I’ve heard these called “awfulizing or minimizing.”
In the course of our life in the ministry, I tended to be the one who awfulized a lot! Our very first parsonage was in the small town of Newborn, Ga which is a “suburb” of Covington. The house was built in 1848, was there during the Civil War, and was the birthplace of Charles Allen a famous minister.
In those days, the minister’s family did not see the parsonage before moving day. When I opened the front door on that June day in 1978, I began “awfulizing.” Needless to say I could not see the big picture.
When my parents arrived to help us move in, my mother opened the door, and immediately burst into tears! I got my “awfulizing” honestly. She didn’t see the big picture either.
After several months of “awfulizing” during which time the kitchen sink fell in, a brick from the fireplace fell into the den, and we did a lot of cleaning and crying, we finally invited the parsonage committee to come take a tour of the church’s house! We wanted to show them the big picture!
It turns out, they had no idea of the state of this parsonage! The men on the committee immediately wanted to fix everything, the women wanted to get all new furniture plus a washer, dryer, and dishwasher which we had been without. They saw the big picture, and we were able to work together.
God subtly taught me that this wasn’t about having everything we needed when we needed it, but rather teaching me how to trust Him and wait for Him to reveal the big picture. These people became our family, and some of my most precious memories are of them and this church.
As humans, we have a limited understanding of God’s big picture of our lives. Without His assistance..we never will. People today have a tendency to try and figure out why things happen as they do using our own thoughts and theories. If we want to understand the big picture, we have to go to the one who created the puzzle in the first place.
The truth is “awfulizing” and “minimizing” never go away. Just like worry, it plagues us constantly. When one issue is resolved, there is always another one waiting to take its place. It’s a fact of life, and we can’t change it.
We can only comprehend so much about God and His plans. Does anyone know where they will be in 5 years, how about next year, next month, next week, or tomorrow? We can make our plans, but who knows if they will fit into God’s big picture. We must trust Him.
Thankfully, God is a God that is unlimited. He isn’t held to time. He isn’t held to place. He knows all about the plans for our big picture – He even created it. The grace of God that brought us through the last “awfulizing” situation will be with us in the next one, and the next one.
We all have a tendency to worry about the future. Whether it’s money, relationships, or the state of the world, we worry about uncertainties instead of letting God show us our big picture in His time.
There’s a story about Death walking toward a city, and a man stopped him and asked, “What are you doing to do?” Death said, “I am going to kill ten thousand people.”
As the days passed, the man warned everyone he could think of about Death’s plan. At the end of the day, the man saw Death again and said, “You said you were going to kill ten thousand people, and yet seventy thousand died.” Death replied, “I killed only ten thousand. Worry and fear killed the rest.” 1502
Notice what Jesus said about the things we worry or “awfulize” over most: Do not worry. Your heavenly Father knows that you need these things. Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added to you. Proverbs 31:33
God’s plan for each of us is perfect because He has the ultimate perspective.. The big picture is in His hands. We just need to watch while He finishes the puzzle!








