
Summing it all up friends, I’d say you’ll do your best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious – the best, not the worst, the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice what you have learned from me, what you have heard and seen and realized. Philippians 4:8-9 The Message
Everyone I know wants to live the best life possible. I’ve never known a single person who wants to have a bad life, but what is the secret to living the best life?
When our small group posed this question, the answers ranged anywhere from happiness and good health, to friendship, family, and of course, love. We work hard to achieve the best life, but the reality is that most of us struggle to live our best life everyday. It just doesn’t seem to happen.
Living your best life consists of intentionally creating a fulfilling authentic life which aligns with personal beliefs, passions, and happiness. It involves prioritizing well being, personal growth, and being the best version of yourself rather than simply chasing material possessions or weath.
Sixteen years ago, Randy and I were fortunate to rescue a little dog named Rocco. He loved us from the moment he walked into our home, and he’s never stopped. Now Rocco has some heart issues, and arthritis (so do his parents), and he has begun to slow down.
As we contemplated a way to give him his best life for the rest of his life, we tried to think of ways to let him enjoy life, but make it easy for him. Thus, Randy now walks him as far as Rocco can, then Rocco rides the rest of the walk in his stroller. He loves it!! Everyone stops to talk to him, and he might even let them give him a rub! He’s living the best life!
Now, giving a dog his best life is a lot different from the way we would achieve ours. There are many keys to living our best life, and I have picked some of the ones that I consider most important.
First, it’s all about the attitude. One of our group members commented that if we wake up and promise to strive to be postive every day, it makes the day the best! Good relationships are the key. If we can live harmoniously within that circle, then we will find our best life.
Next, if we want the best life we don’t take revenge or retaliate when others don’t agree with you or hurt you in some way. Politicians could take a lesson from this one.
The story is told of a man who became angry with one of the airport employees who was handling his luggage. For several minutes, he belittled the employee and criticized his every move. Surprisingly, the employee didn’t seem bothered by the criticism and remained calm.
After the man moved on from the counter, a woman approached the employee with her baggage and asked, “How do you put up with such injustice?” The agent replied, “It’s easy. That guy’s going to New Delhi, but his bags are going to Chennati.” Remember, Jesus said, “Vengance is mine.’
Then, if we want to live our best life, we must control our tongue. Someone once said, “The first screw that goes loose in a person’s head is the one that controls the tongue.”
A young man was sent to Socrates to learn oratory or how to speak. On being introduced to the great philosopher, he talked so much that Socrates asked for double fees. “Why charge me double?” asked the boy. “Because,” replied the great man, “I must teach you two sciences: one, how to hold your tongue; the second, how to speak. The first one is much more difficult.”
If we want to have our best life, it’s important to control how much you speak, because I guarantee you, if you say the wrong words, you will have a bad life!
Finally, to live our best life, we need to forget what is evil and just do good. Be peacemakers. We live in a hostile world where people are constantly trying to make life miserable for us by putting us under pressure, and even causing us great suffering.
We look to the scripture above and realize we are told by God to be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kind hearted, never repay evil for evil, and hold our tongue!! With all that’s happening, what’s our incentive to strive for the best life?
Our incentive through it all is that the eyes of God are upon us and he watches us with omnipresence and hears our cry. He meets our needs. He will help us achieve our best life if we are willing to do the things He asks.
At the close of kindergaten class every afternoon as the kids waited with their back packs for dismissal, we sang a little song together to end the day on a positive note: “We’ve had a good day, we’ve had a great day; now kiss your brain.”
Make today not only a good day or a great day, but the best day!








