“Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.” Proverbs 16:24
There are few things I like better than honey, and I especially love Bit-O-Honey candy chews! This year as Randy and I have visited churches in the area, I was fortunate to attend a service where the minister passed out Bit-O- Honey chews as a “take away”. YUM – I will never forget that message!!
The scripture above equates gracious words to honey for the soul, and it is so true! As a teacher, the golden rule of parent conferences was, “Say three positive things about the child before you mention any of the negative things you might be dying to say.” Keeping this rule in mind, most teachers always try to speak graciously of children in their class which usually leads the parents to be more open to any suggestions. This is not always easy – I know, I’ve been on both sides of the table as a parent and a teacher.
This same rule should go for coaches, parents, friends, enemies, and everyone in between. It’s just as easy to speak gracious words as it is to speak hurtful ones or words spoken in anger. There is a huge power in words and the way they are spoken. John Maxwell said, “People may hear your words, but they feel your attitude.”
I don’t know a single person who can’t benefit from hearing gracious words about themselves, their career, or their children. “Have you lost weight?” is one of my favorites! I also love, “Your grandchildren are so handsome!” – “Retirement is agreeing with you!” – “We miss you so much!” – “Good job!” – “It was great to see you!” – “We love you!” -just to name a few! The old saying is so true, “You can catch more flies with honey.” Bit-O-Honeys” are a great way to remember!!
The Bible says that Jesus will recognize us for our love for each other. I would think He would also recognize gracious words spoken to each other!