The righteous man walks in his integrity; His children are blessed after him. Proverbs 20:7
Father’s Day is coming, and I began to reflect on how much I miss my Dad and Randy’s Dad, but also how proud I am to be blessed with three great Dads in our immediate family. Dads are sometimes not given the credit due them in the family circle, but their job is daunting and likened to Super Heroes these days.
They must be strong in both their careers and their family life. Children of all ages depend on Dads to give them a feeling of worth in this life. If Dad shows his pride and acceptance, kids feel it.
Dads must be forgiving. Words spoken in haste can often scar a child unless they know that Dad’s love is unconditional and forgiving.
Dads must be examples. If a Dad has integrity, a respect for others, a love for country, and a love for God, lessons are taught by watching him in action.
Dads should be loving. Love can take many forms such as hugs, discipline, words of encouragement, and the powerful spoken words, I love you.
Randy and I recently attended the 50th wedding anniversary celebration of two great friends. We have watched their girls grow from childhood to adulthood, attain status in careers, and become exceptional women. We also had the chance to meet and be charmed by their grandchildren. I was so impressed by the children’s ability to stand when introduced, shake hands firmly, look adults in the eye, smile, and converse that I had to ask, “What life lessons are you teaching at home?” The answer was simple, “These kids have learned so much from their dad and granddad. They see the healthy respect with which they treat their wives, their family,their friends, their business acquaintances, and their God. They want to be just like them.” That’s the best compliment a Dad could ever receive!
Happy Father’s Day to all you amazing Dads!